Here's the scoop.............

Yes, Matthew has one of those weirdo teeth that decided to come in WRONG and it came down in his palate. *not good* Yes, it may need to come out. *that's what our regular dentist said* NO we are NOT letting them take it out because if they do, it leaves a HOLE in Matthew's palate again and we are NOT going through palate surgery again for that!!!! *may have to, may not* Here's where the GOOD stuff comes in.....

God's great isn't He?! Matthew already had an appointment to see the Craniofacial team at Children's National Medical Center in Washington, DC the end of June. Well, we just moved it up and I took a chance and asked for June 2nd.......figuring that would be filled up..........THEY FIT US IN because Matthew is having pain from this tooth! Thank you Lord! So, we ride up there this coming Tuesday, Xrays and all and see what they want to do.

You have to remember that during the Craniofacial team appointment, we see about 7 doctors in all. 2 of which are the folks that did his palate/lip reconstruction work, and the dental/orthrodontic folks. So we'll be in GOOD hands! Matthew is definitely ok with this.

I wish I could put his xray online. It's kinda wicked to see. He has all his teeth in the gumline and then this one bright white tooth laying overtop of the rest of the teeth. That's the one that is inside his palate part of his mouth. (roof of his mouth) He doesn't like it. He says it hurts him, although we've seen him eat a piece of ice! Go figure........most of the time, like 85% of the time, he WILL NOT eat anything hard/chew hard things. (ie, meats) He'd rather go hungry or just eat the softer stuff.

So, look for another post next week on what we are told from Children's! Should be interesting. Please pray for NO MORE SURGERIES unless absolutely, positively, no doubtingly needed. ;o)

Momma Kooky

Matthew.........Matthew..............and more Matthew

Well, over the weekend I think we found out why Matthew doesn't want to eat anything hard or crunchy. He has a very loose tooth. Yes, he's only 4 years old, but one of his teeth which has come in north to south instead of teeth like everyone else, west to east...........is MIGHTY loose. I have no idea why but today we will find out. We are going to the dentist. He doesn't mind going. He likes our dentist. She's cool. Plus, you get to pick a toy from the treasure chest! So yeah, he's a happy camper!!!

As I was talking with the dentist yesterday trying to tell her what the problem was, she told me that cleft children sometimes have teeth which come in wrong, like Matthew's and they come down outside of the gumline, which is what this tooth has done. It is because of the cleft palate/lip. Even though it was fixed, doesn't matter, the "damage" to the gumline and gums was already done. It could be that, or it could be something totally different. But it was reassuring to know that she had experience with cleft children.

So, today at 3pm, we head to the dentist. Just momma kooky and Matthew. Just pray there is no pain involved. Matthew's already been through painful procedures and I WILL NOT HAVE HIM BE IN PAIN! Actually, someone asked me the other day at church how many surgeries has Matthew had already. We aren't totally sure (especially about in China) but we think at least 4 or 5 surgeries already. And he's only 4! And yes, he will have to endure more in the future, but that's when he's like 7 or 8ish. (for the hard palate to be placed)

Wish us luck and say a prayer! ;o)

You ever had one of those WOW moments that haunts you a bit?

Well, I guess I did. I had someone recently tell me how neat it was to watch me and Roy interact with one another (and this person knows about how we met via the Internet, some 11 plus years ago). She just said watching Roy and I was like seeing my parents marriage. Honestly? I just said thanks and kept doing what I was doing and didn't think twice about it. But I've been thinking about it more and more.

So, I dedicate this post to my husband/our marriage/our family. I tell you, starting out is like taking a step into the deep blue water of the ocean! You don't know how deep it is, or if it will consume you, or drown you.........I would say our marriage is pretty deep. We have our ups and downs. I think if you didn't have those, someone is giving into the other spouse most of the time and they aren't very happy about it. I can't tell you how many people told me I was a fool for marrying Crazy Daddy! (Roy) Everyone just knew he was an ax murderer. (As he says, he's never murdered one ax in his lifetime! HA!) I don't regret one thing that I did to marry the man of my dreams.

What's even nicer is that we have NO interference from his family, or from mine! No mother or mother-in-law's who can't stand me or Roy. No nagging or "you should do things this way or that way". NOPE, and you know what? I'm a strong enough woman to put my foot down to tell my mom (or Roy's mom) to say this is MY marriage, NOT yours. Please don't stick your nose where it doesn't belong! My mother was NEVER like that. Nor my father. (both are deceased) Roy's mom? She isn't like that either! She'll be staying with us this fall for a couple of months! I can't wait! She's from Norway! Can't wait.

Alot of my friends have overbearing, overpowering mothers or fathers who really give them grief about their marriages. WHY!?!??! To me, I believe the Bible. A man shall leave his mother and a woman leave her family to become one! Why don't people understand that verse?! They'd be alot happier in my mind. Anyway......having someone else see my marriage and see how I interact with my husband, well, it's neat. I guess. I don't "act" for them, that's for sure! Ha, Roy knows me better than that. I say what I think! Sometimes it gets me in trouble, but sometimes, it makes others think! Sometimes it's needed.

I can say this. NOTHING, but NOTHING will ever come between my husband and my family and myself. I'll die first! NO ONE, NOTHING, NO circumstance, NOTHING! Absolutely nothing. You can bank on that one.

You know? My parents anniversary is around now. Forgot what day, actually. I had good role models. Excellent role models. They'd be proud of me. I know that in my heart, my parents are proud of me and my family.

Wow moments have a tendency to make you really think! Dang! Yes, 11 years of marriage let's you reflect too. I WOULDN'T TRADE ANYTHING! The ups, the downs, the adoptions, the traveling, the homes, the continents, no........The Lord has blessed Roy and I and we thank Him enormously for his graciousness and loving ability to trust us with His most precious jewels.

I thank God for my family, for friends and family who know how to keep their distance and breathe life into my family and myself. Folks like that are very hard to come by! I am thankful for becoming a mother and for being taught each and every day that I'm only here for a short time.........my true life/home is not on Earth, but in Heaven! THANK YOU FATHER THAT MY CHILDREN KNOW YOU ALREADY and that Becca Boo knows you in an intimate way! Thank you for her salvation! Thank you that her life will be with you! I continue to pray for Matthew's life. May his name be in the book of Life soon, Lord! Just like Becca's!

Ok, the tears are starting...........emotions are from you Lord. When it comes to my family, well, yeah, they flow.

May today be a good day in the Lord for you and your family! Live to the fullest, whether you want to or not! ;o)

Momma Kooky

Matthew's feeling better BUT?????????? And Rebecca's BIG DAY!

Well? Matthew is feeling better from the Asthma attack. Still on his nebulizer, but doing better. To add to that, he now has something called FIFTH's disease which is apparently ALL OVER our county! I know where he got it from too! *church* Fifth's disease is a nuisance more than anything. He can't give it to anyone, but he looks funny when it spurs. Let me explain......Matthew had someone in his Awana class that had Fifth's disease and the mother told everyone that it was ok, her son couldn't pass it on to anyone. HA! *mumbling under breath* Fifth's disease makes your body turn red, especially your cheeks, ears and neck. Matthew, being Chinese, doesn't have the trunk/body puzzling look. Thank goodness. But, it takes apparently about 5 weeks to get rid of. It's a "strep" type of thing. Called his pediatrician and she said, "It must run it's course". *nice*

And Rebecca's BIG DAY? SCHOOL REGISTRATION! Ya! WOO HOO! HALLELUJAH! PRAISE GOD! Let the angels sing! I mean, yes, it's a day to register children to attend Kindergarten. This Thursday. We have found ALL documents and we are READY! We are also ready to hopefully, Lord willing, to send Matthew to pre-k at the same Elementary school, where he will have continuous care of his SPEECH problems! Pray for that one! I have to admit, I hope Rebecca's new teacher can keep her at bay! Rebecca is a very structured child. NEEDS structure. DESPERATELY! Always has. She gets bored rather quickly if she's not kept busy.

Rebecca is very smart though. I've already had some people ask me if she was in First grade. Or were we going to skip Kindergarten altogether and go to First grade. Um, NO! What she lacks, is more on a Kindergarten level, but yet, education wise, she's a tad beyond Kindergarten. So we'll see. We'll see what the educators think and where she places in some testing and so forth.

MOM CAN'T WAIT! Actually, neither can dad! hehehe....*s*

Oh yeah, the squirrels in our attic, we think, are totally gone now and the hole in the soffet is fixed, so YEAH! No more little feet running to and fro in the attic! We get an estimate on our deck for the house soon! Momma is VERY happy about that. Also, mom is feeling better from a small bout of Bronchitis. *thank God for meds*

Other than that? Everybody's good. Pictures of the new kitchen table are coming along with our new refrigerator! (It's one like we had in Norway. Freezer is on the bottom.)

Happy Early Mother's Day to all the Mom's out there!

Momma Kooky

Just a quickie to tell you..............

Matthew has had another Asthma attack. It was just a matter of time, I'm sure. The pollen is EVERYWHERE! On the cars, IN the cars, in the air.............last night he had his first one in a while. Totally couldn't breathe, but with medicine and the nebulizer treatments, he's ok today. Still "wheezy"............but he can breathe.

Keep him in your prayers. I'm personally praying for RAIN! Just enough to wash out most of the tree pollen for a bit to help all people with allergies. Will let you know more later.


Momma Kooky

YOU HAVE TO CHECK THIS LADY OUT!!!!!!!!!!!!

She is totally awesome!!!!! Please go and listen to her!!! You won't be disappointed!!!

Susan Boyle sings "I Dreamed a Dream" from Les Miserables on "Brittains got talent"

Birthday Wish Answered...............

I have thee MOST coolest hubby in the world! I have NEW kitchen flooring!!! THANK YOU LORD!!!!!!!!!! It's sitting in the middle of the kitchen and the living room (because it's sooooo long) but it's here.........have to move ALOT of stuff to get it down, but it'll be done!!! *happy, happy*